boys girls women and men

i had a thought once that you can know if you are talking to a boy or man if you can know if you are talking to a penis or a person with a penis.
sadly, many penises never realize that they are attatched to a man.
gladly, many industries boom when penises grow up and get jobs and have disposable income.

i dont know if this analogy applies to girls women and their parts, but it probably does.


that was vague so i devised a test, a boy vs. man test
obviously, it is not fool proof, virtually nothing is...

but to determine boy or man... do something/say something completely bewildering
like in Paranormal Activity where ole girl is like, yeah i've had encounters with a demon since i was 8

i have been observing the kids around and i have noticed that boys have to destroy things, whether they like them or not. "what an awesome ant hill", *stomp, goes the mindset...


so if you do/say something bewildering to a boy, he will rage against it. this will be more pronounced in some.
a man will pause and try to understand what has just occured

likewise, it seems like to test girl or woman, do/say something that makes complete and utter sense
i am not saying that females are illogical, in fact i AM saying that logic is illogical, or at least restricted to the 'intelligent', a self-satisfying concept i think...
but do/say something that is completely from the heart and genuine and gauge the response. it doesnt take a genius to make sense, i mean, no it does actually, but not a brainiac. living and breathing love is pure genious. living and breathing anything is kind of a miracle, right?

so, girls rage against pure love? hmmm.....
maybe, i mean, pure love, possibly...
unconditional love...

i will say that boys, although taught to not be a sissy, are allowed to love deeper, without fear, except fear of being a sissy. boys are very affectionate, when not destroying things.
ah frustration!! haha

the key thing is that boys are men are both highly sexual creatures and 95% of their existence is sexual. of the remaining 5%, prolly 4% is some other biological need. and of the remaining 1%, half of that is nonsexual affection for everyone else and the other half is i dunno, fear of death? i say sexual, i mean permeable.
i exagerate?
the thing is that boys want to fuck you and men want to lay with you.
to get almost crude about it, boys want to destroy your vagina and you for having one (while at times being completely affectionate?!), and men want to understand it. (which is a little gross? but beautiful almost?)

i cant say for myself what i am, i think all humans are boys girls women and men all at once but one or two much more than the others.